Wedding Day on a Lovely Place

No passado dia 2 de Maio foi feriado aqui no Reino Unido e um dos melhores amigos do Rui casou e nós conseguimos estar presentes depois de nos vermos livres do Covid. Ufa!

A cerimonia foi neste sitio encantador, Horwood House, bem no coração de Buckinghamshire. E o melhor de tudo foi ver o Louis divertir-se e interagir com toda a gente, entre miúdos e graúdos, começando pela senhora que estava a tocar harpa ate aos fotógrafos. 😀 Mas de quem ele gostou mesmo foi da madrinha da noiva, que ja conhecia desde a LegoLand. Ele fez mesmo a festa toda 🙂 Que orgulho! 🙂

Uma das coisas que constatamos é que nos casamentos ingleses as porções dos pratos são mais pequenas que dos casamentos portugueses, mas não foi por isso que não comemos mal, estava tudo muito bom e apetitoso, até achamos melhor assim 🙂 Foi servido um almoço que eles chama breakfast (não me perguntem porquê…) e depois ao final do dia foi servido um buffet depois dos noivos partirem o bolo. Lamento não ter fotos da comida pois, como disse estava tudo mesmo bom e pouco como do buffet, e nem sequer nos lembramos de tirar fotos, afinal de contas quando é para comer, é para comer 😀 Que o diga o Louis que adorou a sua pasta 😀

Quanto às nossas vestimentas, pois eu sei que é uma coisa que vocês gostam de saber, por isso aqui vai 🙂 Fui pela primeira vez ao cabeleireiro aqui no Reino Unido, desde que ca estou. Sim, é verdade 🙂 Desde 2013, que tenho cortado as pontas em casa, e nao me tenho sido nada mal segundo a cabeleireira 🙂 Em Dezembro de 2016, quando fomos a Portugal, fui à cabeleireira da minha sogra, e tive uma experiencia muito má… Mesmo sabendo que eu estava doente, ela, distraída com a conversa, lavou-me o cabelo com agua fria… acabando por me molhar as costas 🙁 Conclusão, sai do cabeleireiro pior da gripe. 🙁 Voltando ao cabeleireiro escolhido, pesquisei no Google depois da mãe do amiguinho do Louis me ter sugerido um estabelecimento em Uxbridge, e eu achei por encontrar o Wendy’s, que fica localizado numa zona muito pitoresca, bem no centro da cidade. Paguei £36 por lavar e esticar, ah e fizeram-me uma trança. Confesso que não estou habituada a pagar tanto mas a simpatia das funcionaria convenceu-me.

O meu vestido foi da Zara, custou 50£ e foi amor à primeira vista 🙂 A mala é da Primark, o casaco de malha da H&M pois aqui faz frio e os brincos sao da Parfois e comprei-os em 2014 🙂 Os sapatos e a echarpe mandei vir da Amazon 🙂 Tudo baratinho e com bom gosto 😉

A roupa e sapatos Louis são da H&M e da Next 🙂 O fato do pai foi alugado e os noivos ofereceram a camisa, gravata e acessórios 🙂 Adorei o pormenor dos botões de punho, reconhecem a referencia da saga Star Wars?

Deixo-vos com um video do Louis a dar show 😀 Foi sem duvida, um dia em grande e o Louis soube aproveita-lo da melhor maneira 🙂

Está oficialmente aberta a época dos casarios 😀

The bug got us.

After two years walking through the raindrops, it’s our turn. We don’t call it immune. Luckily we have all three doses of the vaccine, and Louis just took his. Maybe that’s why he’s asymptomatic. And i’m good because he hates being sick. You understand it’s not good. And put on the mask. Yes, the mask protects. Same. If it wasn’t for the mask, we’d have caught the virus a long time ago. And if it wasn’t for the shots, we’d have ended up in the hospital. 🙁 I’ve had two pneumonias and believe me, if it wasn’t for the vaccines, I’d repeat it again, it was the third and this time I was intubated because I’m still recovering from the removal of an organ…

How it all started. Last Wednesday, I picked up Louis from school, found the mother of his best friend, who only after putting a hug, tells me he had or has covid. I ran out of ground, because that day I wasn’t wearing a mask. 🙁 And she knows I’m a risk patient. The next day I came across her again and she told me that I shouldn’t have vaccinated Louis because the kids should keep themselves clean (religion stuff, she’s Muslim) I just told her I didn’t like to see my sick son and I do everything, like my mother always did so he wouldn’t get sick… The other two days she didn’t show up and the one who picked up the kid was her husband. further proof that she was still with covid. One thing that makes me very confused, is that from their house only the husband has the 3 doses, maybe because he is the man of the house, who brings the money and can not get sick because he needs to work, she only has both doses (says he does not need more, but it is already the second time he gets covid …) and the kids don’t need it because they should stay clean 🙁 According to her, you’re only going to end up in the hospital who has heart problems. To which I answered him: and people with weakened immune systems like me. 🙁 This just proved that people don’t care about others and when it comes to health they’re selfish and irresponsible. 🙁

Believe me I was really sad and disappointed because I didn’t expect this from someone I have a lot of appreciation for. But once again that’s how we learn.

And you know the best? The English government rules regarding covid are now in the following conditions: if positive test can go to work or go to school in it… infect more people. Not to mention that the use of mascaras has been abolished with the exception of London transport, because we have a conscious Mayor but people no longer wear mascara. Each head its sentence.

My symptoms started on Saturday, still with negative tests. I tested positive on Monday after having spent a night with 38.5th fevers and very strong headaches . Oh on Saturday I started out feeling very tired, with severe chest pains and difficulty breathing. And very, very dripping on the nose. 🙁

Today Tuesday, I’m still a little tired, with a cough and I’m still dripping on my nose. But the symptoms are much more bearable. 🙂 I hope they stay that way, because we can’t stop this migrant life here alone with no one to help.

You know what surprises me the most? We had a mini-holiday of Pascoa full of fun , we traveled on almost empty trains with maximum safety, we went to the Museum of trains in Didcot Parkway and we had no problems with covid because we had no accumulations of people, even in Legoland that was full of people we were lucky … and we had to go back to school to be infected by people we know. 🙁

Challenge: Catathon| Readathon

I saw this reading challenge on Melanie Moreira’s Instagram and couldn’t resist participating. Not only because I love cats but also because I have what it takes to respond to it 😀

The challenge is very simple, during this weekend at 3.30 pm Saturday and Sunday, there will be online reading marathons. You can learn everything on the hosts’ instagram and twitter of the event.

The hosts are:

Abigail: @abigailscupoftea

Sara:@sarasreadingnook

Christin:@christin_rene_

Melanie:@thatgirl_blogue

Here you can see what the Challenge consists of:

And my participation is this:

I discovered these books by author Tom Cox when I came to London. Maybe because I missed my cat so much at the time.





Tom Cox is an extraordinary writer who writes about everything a little, about life in general and about his cats, always with a lot of sense of humor in the mix 🙂





Good Bad Furry Meet THE BEAR – a cat who carries the weight of the world on his furry shoulders, and whose wise, owl-like eyes seem to ask, Can you tell me why I am a cat, please? Like many intellectuals, The Bear would prefer a life of quiet solitude with plenty of time to gaze forlornly into space and contemplate society’s ills. Unfortunately he is destined to spend his days surrounded by felines of a significantly lower IQ. . .

RALPH: handsome, self-satisfied tabby, terrified of the clothes horse.

SHIPLEY: mouthy hooligan and champion mouser, rendered insensible by being turned upside down.

ROSCOE: fiercely independent kitten, tormented by her doppelganger in the mirror.

And then there’s Tom, writing with his usual wit and charm about the unexpected adventures that go hand in hand with a life at the beck and call of four cats. . . or three cats and a sensitive poet who just happens to be a foot high and covered in fur.

Talk to the Tail Following on from Tom’s life with six cats in ‘Under The Paw’, he now picks up the story in ‘Talk To The Tail’, updating readers on what has happened with his feline friends as well as looking back for more confessions about his animal-loving past.

Who participated or will participate in this challenge? 🙂

Cats and Books are always an excellent combination 🙂

Sky Gardens. A different experience.

You may not believe it, but I've been here almost a decade and just now I've been visiting the Sky Garden, ca in London. I took advantage, and decided to offer myself an unforgettable gift in my birthday week. On top of that it's free, like almost everything in London.

After climbing 35 floors, reaching up there, we are treated to a breathtaking view 🙂 London. You were a dream come true. When I came to ca I put as cover photo this image:

I know London isn't New York, but for me it's so much more. Besides being similar to my hometown, Porto, i already said here that I see many similarities between the two cities. London is a world within the world. London was the city that welcomed us almost 10 years ago and I'm only grateful. Here we feel at home. And that's very good. 🙂

The photos speak for themselves and excuse my heady and happy 😀

In this photo, if they zoom in, they can see Wembley Stadium in the direction of St. Peter's Cathedral. Paul, down downtown, deep down, right next to our 🙂

I can't imagine London, so calm and quiet, being bomb-bombed like it's already been… 🙁 Just hearing the sirens warning you that the bombs are going to fall, on TV or on videos, I shudder. Only those who have lived or live these situations know. 🙁 As I told you in this post.

To visit sky garden, all you have to do is book the site completely free of charge 🙂 Yes, they don't have to pay anything but they accept donations, as in every museum in London 🙂 To get there take the Underground District Line , my favorite, and get off at Monument station, or the Central Line and get off at the "confusing" Bank station.

Naughty Dinosaur

Storyteller Dices 4.0 Challenge created by The Drawers Blog of My Enchanted House.

Word – Language.

Louis is in the dinosaur phase, influenced by his best friend, who’s loved dinosaurs since daycare. They even invented a game in the playground, the genre of the catch, which is called 1,2,3 dinosaur 🙂

Oh, you rassy! – I heard Louis say it while he was taking a shower.

What’s going on, Louis?

– It’s the dinosaur that’s throwing its tongue out. I told you, you don’t do that. but he’s a misdeed.

– There’s the bidets, Mr. Dinosaur! Louis is right. All right, my dear, you’re a beautiful boy.

– See, dinosaur, if you’re good, you have a sticker and a sweet 🙂 – And now it’s time to get out of the shower because I’m getting cold. Are you ready, dinosaur? 🙂

This story occurred to me naturally this morning after I took Louis to school, because I remembered the dialogues and jokes he had at the time of the 🙂

What a wonder of bathing

A place to relax…

One of these days I got on bus 350 towards Heathrow to discover a different place that was suggested to me through Instagram, the Ansell Garden Centre. I left at the nearest stop and walked about 5 minutes, dazzled by the arrival of spring, in the middle of 🙂 full that is as who says, is coming to an end and we have barely seen it…

You know those places where we feel so good that we don't feel like going out? yes, that's how I felt. The Ansell Garden Centre is a space with items for the house and garden, very welcoming. Besides, it has a very cute attraction for children and adults: A large aquarium with huge fish where for £1 we can feed them, it's fun how relaxing 🙂 Louis is going to freak out when he's 😀

And after the little fish, we can then enjoy and relax again in a quiet and quiet place, I tell you about the Cintias Cafe , an ideal place to read, study, work or simply have a coffee or tea 🙂

For me it was here forever, but since it can't be, there's a promise to 🙂

World Book Day in the UK

World Book Day is celebrated here in the United Kingdom today. On this day schools usually organize very cute activities but this year for obvious reasons this will not be possible.

These are the favorite stories of Louis at the moment, he falls asleep and wakes up talking about them. These are the stories of the park keeper, Percy the Park keeper, and the animals of the park, by Nick Butterworth.

This year Louis wanted to dress up Percy, made two very cute paintings on the stories “the best tree house ever” he said and also we started the day reading all the stories, and even had the assistance of all the animal friends 🙂 That was a nice way to start the day, don’t you think? 😉

How do you usually celebrate your book day? 🙂

You see?…

I hate being right about these things. Regarding the home school here in the area, this week we received this message from louis's school principal asking parents to watch out for school "borrowed" laptops so children can access online classes… because if laptops appear damaged, refund contributions are expected. I think it's good that they do it so people can learn to be responsible. Have you seen this? They were provided with laptops because they had needs and are now subject to having to spend single and exclusive money because of them… You can't believe people are getting more and more… Unconscious.

With so many people in need and these people going to ruin something that's not theirs? I'm the only one who thinks this is a tremendous lack of respect and common sense. What example are these parents giving their children? And you have to be the teacher telling you where the kids should put their laptop to attend online classes? Oh, boy… I'm speechless. On top of that knowing that there are families like those of Louis' best friend who needed a laptop and were not in time to get it… And now the boy had to go back to school because her home computer broke down… 🙁 You think that's fair? 🙁

My biggest dream…

… is that women’s diseases are no longer treated as a seven-headed animal by doctors and society. I speak from experience over the years my illness worsened because the doctors confused the symptoms, said they were cramps and gave me clisters… I would like these symptoms to be well interpreted so that the diseases do not worsen to something worse. Yes, because in my case cysts in the ovaries can lead to cancer as age passes (this is my biggest fear since the disease was diagnosed to me at 18) . Type II diabetes and heart problems, bouts of kidneys, swollen legs and ankles that lead to thrombosis

And this pandemic is not helping at all, because I know that doctors are too busy fighting this terrible virus…

I identify so much with this American girl, Shelby Eckard, known as PCOS Support Girl that I follow on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

How many times do we put ourselves in second place now because we told the doctor that the exams are for the next appointment, sometimes because we have dishes to wash, well because we have to take the child to school, now because we have to entertain them … and our body is showing signs but we don’t do it because we don’t care.I reviewed myself so much with this text from PCOS Support Girl.

Image taken from Facebook – Instagram text here

She’s a Democrat, and despite being heavily troubled by the disease, she spent almost four hours in line to vote… subject ed to being insulted and assaulted by radical Trump supporters. 🙁 And yet she didn’t give up, even after she spent the last few days in the hospital. Yes, because she knows that her vote counts for things to change, especially if they are to help her health.

I’d like to wake up one day and not have these symptoms anymore, wake up several times in the middle of the night with my belly bursting thinking I can’t take it and I’m not going to make it through the night… 🙁

What’s giving me the strength to move on are my family, my two loves and these podcasts about PCOS where Shelby participates with another girl, Jeni, my age, who also suffers from the disease, and has already had two cancers… These conversations are showing me that I’m not alone in this fight. 🙂

People who don't matter…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rLFigSAX8GI&feature=share

Don’t be this person who votes for Trump and then complains that he needs health care but doesn’t have the money to pay for them. Don’t be this person who votes for Trump just because he’s pro-life but then he has a disease like mine that causes him infertility problems… let’s not be this person who brags about being native And Christian Latina but who forgets that her president has put Latin children in cages! 

I met this person 7 years ago through groups about my disease, PCOS – PCOS Polycystic Ovarios Syndrome and I have followed her path.

You can see how she has a disconcerting and confrontational speech, typical of a supporter of the current Us president.

This person has been trying to get pregnant for years, complains that he has many health problems caused by the disease, adopted a baby through foster carer but after a short time the child was taken away…

If you can watch the video to the end without wanting to hit this person, I admire your courage and effort. Because I couldn’t… 🙁 How can someone be so unconscious? Just because Trump is against abortion doesn’t mean he respects children like he said above. And nothing gives the right to call murderers to people who have abortions. Everyone speaks for themselves. Every woman has every right to do whatever she wants with her body.

With this bad example you can see the lack of notion that exists among Trump supporters… but I hope that in these elections you will gain common sense.